Happiness

"But what is happiness except the simple harmony between a man and the life he leads?" - Albert Camus

In the book, "To See the World in a Grain of Sand," C.L. James tells the fable of a wise old cat that notices a kitten chasing its tail. Here is a short outline :

"Why are you chasing your tail so?" asked the wise old cat. The kitten replied, "I have learned that th...e best thing for a cat is happiness, and happiness is my tail. Therefore, I am chasing it; and when I catch it, I shall have happiness."

The wise old cat said, "My son, I too have paid attention to the problems of the universe. I too have judged that happiness is in my tail. But, I noticed that whenever I chase after it, it keeps running away from me, and when I go about my business, it just seems to come after me wherever I go."

The One-legged Grackle

“You are the only person on earth who can use your ability.” Zig Ziglar



"I would not have noticed if I didn't keep looking." I said to myself afterward deep in thought.

There were on a few common grackles on the grass pecking away on the ground as I noticed them as I was seated in the car. They were all feverishly pecking through the turf eating up whatever they can find on on a small parcel of lawn.

My eye caught one of the birds for some reason. Maybe the uneveness of it's movements compared to the others; the hopping from spot to spot with it's head up versus walking with it's head down and beak in the grass like the others.

This grackle, it's blue-bronze feathers, shining and full as the other five or so, had only one leg.

Within seconds after watching the one-legged grackle work for it's food as hard or harder than the others a loud noise scared the volery of grackles and almonst in perfect sync they flapped their wings and flew eastward.

That one-legged grackle had to work harder than the others in his fleet. Where the others were covering the ground with their head constantly down, this one had to pull his head up for balance and hop from spot to spot.

Did that grackle know he was different or did he just know what he needed to do to survive, to be successful? Looking at them all, it appeared he was as healthy as the others in his little group.

Why do we as God-gifted beings look for excuses not to be successful? Why do we hang labels and feel we need to take care of those who may be a little less fortunate that the person next to him or her? Why has our society allowed people to not work hard and realize their full potential, which ultimately weakens them even further.

Don't mistaken me, there are people who can't care for themselves, and we should. My point is this - we are not equal in talent, ability, information, intelligence, and physical characterists. All of us must work hard at different levels to be successful. We can't give ourselves excuses or enable others to lose their vitaily, their force, because we've labeled them.

When those birds took off at the bang of that door, and when I watched the one-legged grackle flap and fly, he was no different than the rest. God gave those birds the gift to fly and soar, and that grackle, with that one-leg, flew as well as those in his volery.

We all have that power in us. We have been built to soar in our own ways and fly high. We shouldn't expect anything less from ourselves, our friends, or family. It's the effort we put into life that rewards us emotionally, knowing we gave it all.

No excuses!! Take a lesson from the one-legged grackle and work hard; work harder. Hop along, scratch it out!! You were built by God to fly, to soar. Don't think anything less. Now go!!

Four Cents

“Enjoy the little things, for one day you may look back and realize they were the big things.” - Robert Brault

It was an early morning weekday and I was headed to our corporate office in Houston. I pulled in the convenience store about 5:30 a.m. to get a cup of coffee for my hour ride. As I exited my vehicle and headed up to the front doors with the illuminated Valero sign overhead, I glanced down at the curb from the parking space to the front of the building.

My eye caught four pennies on the pavement. I stepped over them and continued in. As I was headed toward the coffee pots I felt bad I didn’t stop immediately and pick them up. I always do. Not so much for one penny, but more for picking something up that says “In God We Trust”.

For whatever time it took to get my coffee and pay for it the thought of not picking up the coins would not escape my mind.

As I left the store I went back to the spot I saw them and they were still there. I bent over to pick them up and as I did I also saw a dime several inches from the pennies. Wow, fourteen cents!

As I was driving to work I thought about this episode. How I saw something of little value but paid attention to it, and doing so, I found something of greater value.

It made me think about how life is similar. How many of us don’t take the time to notice the little things and unknowingly miss the bigger things.

If you don’t focus on a little problem, oh, how many of us know it can grow to a big problem. If you don’t focus on a little opportunity, for sure it will never grow into a big opportunity. If you don’t recognize you kids for the little things they do, they’ll never be encouraged to take on the bigger things in life.

Little things are important. Recognize them. Learn to see them. Act on them!

Happy Mother's Day!!

Somewhere Over the Rainbow

"Happiness is as a butterfly which, when pursued, is always beyond our grasp, but which if you will sit down quietly, may alight upon you." Nathaniel Hawthorne



I’ve always been fascinated with the Wizard of Oz. Just a great story and it amazes me how well it was made in 1939 when it wasn’t long before that year movie-goers were watching black and white silent films.

Dorothy dreams and ‘sings’ of somewhere over the rainbow. Part of the lyrics goes like this;

Someday I'll wish upon a star
And wake up where the clouds
Are far behind me
Where troubles melt like lemon drops
Away above the chimney tops that's where you'll find me

I look at some people today who are singing the same song in their life. They’re wishing for all their troubles to melt away. Constantly looking for happiness outside themselves through a different job, a bigger house, a different spouse or a different land. Always changing but never finding happiness. I have to believe they have seen the most watched movie ever.

Dorothy, wishing for a better place, only invited more problems into her life. She spent the entire time trying to get back to where she was after realizing what was really important. Dorothy had to deal with evil witches and flying monkeys. She was duped in believing in the Magical Oz could solve her and her friends problems.

How often do people bring more problems in their lives by chasing happiness? How many people divorce for a new relationship only to find the next one no better? How many people do you know that are continually chasing happiness and never finding it?

Learning to be content is as important as assuring you body gets the proper nutrition. Like Dorothy, learn you can’t chase happiness. Learn there’s no place like home. Learn to be content with yourself.

Chase dreams for the right reasons, find happiness in yourself.

Now, stand up, put your feet together, click your heals together and say, ‘there’s no place like home.”

Don’t be like the little kitten who was told the happiness was at the end of his tail. The poor kitten spent hours each day going in circles trying to catch it. After endless days of not catching it, the kitten went to the wiser, older cat and asked her how come she didn’t chase her tail. The wise cat told the little kitten that her tail goes wherever she does, she doesn’t have to chase it.